I quite understand that some people has an irritable attitude, which makes them toxic. Apparently, such individual needs to be avoided for your sanity. However, most people are intentionally spiteful and that’s the problem in our environs.
Eliminating toxic individuals from your life is your greatest step towards your mental growth.Tonokez
A lot of people judge by what they hear about you, they also judge on mere assumptions. These reminds me of what I was told about someone I barely know; that I should be careful because she was a bad person. Literally, I am not a kind of person, you can say such words to, because I am a very factual personae. I see those words as “hate speech.” Do you know what I did? I simply went closer to her, in fact, I made her my friend. In the process I tried to figure out if what I was told was true or false. And guess what I found out? There were all lies from the pit of hell! What’s going through your mind?
I know you might be thinking that I actually told her what I heard, when we became friends. Unfortunately, I did not, I believe it’s not worth it. Because, destiny has a way of playing its game. Rather, I became closer and nice to her, irrespective of anyone’s opinion. At this point, you get to find out that most of the people who are termed “bad” are actually very kind-hearted. You ought to understand that no one is perfect, you have your flaws, so do I, and so does everyone out there, which makes us imperfect.
REASONS TO PRACTICE KINDNESS Never condescend to any level of sabotaging anyone including yourself. I tell you this; the more you practice kindness daily and consistently, the less you become judgmental. I do practice this daily and it’s really worth it. Moreover, it doesn’t cost anything, instead it made me beautiful and more compassionate about myself and people around me.
The way you treat people around you says a lot about you as well, people go through a lot already. Don’t compound their problems by making them feel miserable, because the world is already difficult. These abhorrence has made lots of people find reasons never to care about being kind anymore. They believe that no matter how kind they are, people will still set them into flames. I came across these saying thus;
The real test of character, is how you treat the people, that you don’t have to be nice to.
Kindness is more important than being right, and most people fight their own demon; and you never can tell.
Be a kind of person who brings a miraculous blessing to everyone you meet, because life only comes around once.
What do you choose to be? Hate or Kind. I will love to hear from you.
Thanks for reading,